I walked in to my living room to see Gemma standing on cabinet looking out the window..
Months ago she destroyed the blinds so she can look out.. As upsetting as it is.. She wanted to look out and see the neighborhood and the dog Allie who loves next door..
Our next door neighbor removed half the fence in their front yard and now and now Allie does not play in her front yard… Gemma would watch her whenever she was out with her family.
I began thinking it would be cool to cut a hole in the back yard fence – creating a port hole for the dogs to look at each other and smell and lick each other… and have some sort of door we can open and close or chicken wire would be good too…
At first I began imagining the neighbor laughing saying it probably would NOT be a good idea… Somewhat irritated I suggest the idea…
I noticed that is not a loving to imagine.. It is taking the fun – love – away from the dogs..
So… Revise the imaginal conversation to my neighbor reaction being excited… Agrees asking if I had the materials.
Now this revision does not mean I actually desire or will build a port hole for the dogs. But it does give to my neighbor and the dogs.